Family of 13 Kids

I Come From A Complicated Family. My Father had 13 children , with my Mother being Wife #1 and , Father remarried ex-mistress Wife #2 to be Stepmom, and #3 was a very pushy tenacious determined mistress that he basically had to run from and push away but to keep the peace, we just all get along on whatsapp family group chat. It was a very complicated situation in general pero I am very proud that we are able to make it work and that is saying a lot. I read all these things about 'blended' families with like just 3 kids and 2 women and they cant make it work and it's like, uh, come on. I do have to say that there are times I wish I could "compartmentalize" (and I do admit I do to a certain extent). But the General Consensus is Peace , something I don't think I naturally have, pero they do and ain't it Grand I am Learning from Them.